CRPS: How can one begin to explain chronic pain?
For those who have never experienced constant chronic pain typically seen in CRPS, it is a foreign language, always just around the peripheral but never omnipresent. It serves a purpose to keep us safe, but it is never intended to stay for long. The injury heals,time moves on and so does the pain. That is the way it has always been.
Until one day it doesn’t, instead it lingers and invades every aspect of your daily life.
There are two different ages in my life that I mark as before and after being diagnosed with CRPS. Before diagnosis, I could outrun circles around a circle. After diagnosis, I am lucky if I am able to put my own shoes on.
It is hard for people who have never experienced this constant nagging, burning pain to comprehend this.
So many times that I have lost count I have been told that “These things take time, you will be better by (time frame).” That time frame always comes and goes as a minor blip on the calendar and I am worse, not in any way better.
I was made aware of an interesting case of a woman who claims to have been injured by a wine bottle whilst out shopping. She claims that a result of this injury is that she has developed CRPS. She says that because the wine was not placed in a double bag that the bag tore resulting in her injury. As a result of this belief and due to the nature of the injury, she has decided to file a claim against the store for 8.3 million dollars.
I shared this story with friends outside of the CRPS community and got reactions in a large range. Many called her greedy and selfish and some commented that she didn’t need that amount of money. Some also said that she was making it look worse by complaining about the use of a crutch.
I will not deny for a lot of reasons we are a “sue for no reason” type of society at times, but this is the one time where this Author believes this is a justifiable number that covers the need.
Imagine that you are middle aged and you have been putting what little savings you have aside for retirement with the rest eventually going to your kids.
One day you do something you have done a million times before and go to the store. This is something we all do almost every week, only for this lady fate had another idea.
A wine bottle breaks through a plastic bag and lands on her foot creating a series of unfortunate events leading to the development of CRPS.
Suddenly all of your carefully laid plans are uprooted and dashed to the four winds. You can’t work, can’t care for yourself let alone others. A well provided family can turn destitute almost over night due to this disease.
Suddenly you have to account for paying for medications, doctors, co-pays and specialists that you never knew existed. Your days become a mix of taking medications for pain, having procedures just to keep minimal function, taking more medication for the side effects of the procedures and yet more medications for the pain. These are just the minor things and already the bill has steadily begun to increase, soon becoming very high indeed. Eventually you have to move on to surgical procedures that often stretch to the tune of hundreds of thousands of dollars at a time.
All the while there is still the family to provide for, but how is this even possible?
In today’s society we cannot go like our past ancestors and live on only one salary. More and more families now depend on having two bread winners to ensure stability in the home.
What if suddenly one of these crutches breaks?
Let’s do a bit of Math:
- Average Income of a Family in the United States- $51,939(1)
- “Annual premiums for employer-sponsored family health coverage $16,351 this year, with workers on average paying $4,565 toward the cost of their coverage” (2)
- Average Mortgage per year- $12,876 (3)
- Cost of Food (Low Budget, for One Year) – $7228– about $139 per week (4)
- Co-pays- Four Appointments a month (PT, GP, Specialist, and Pain Management.) Average is about $20 an appt.- $960 a year.
Let us start there. Let’s cut the average income in half since we are all for equality- $25,969.50
Minus Mortgage- $8528.50
Minus Food- $1300.50
We are left with $340.50
That is $28.37 a month and we have not even covered taxes, car insurance, utilities and other necessities.
Suddenly we can see the dire situation we are in and we are headed into the red pretty fast.
According to the article they say the lawsuit is:
“seeking non-economic damages for pain and suffering of $4.2 million, plus nearly $4.1 million in economic damages from $74,048 in medical expenses plus expected future medical expenses, loss of earned income and other expenses.” (5)
She is asking the highest number hoping to reach the stars below. I know I would do the same if someone asked me, “What is my life worth?”
She is doing the best thing that she knows how to do, with the ability she has left. Provide for herself and her family, it is just in a different way to somebody else.
What are your thoughts on this case and do you believe that the amount being sought is excessive?
Please leave a comment below and let us know your opinion as we love to read your comments!
Life with CRPS is Hard.
It causes a range of emotions that most people would have trouble coping with, let alone someone who is sick.
Why must we fight about who gets recognition about/for legislation or proclamations?
We are alienated as it is and to fight about who is going to get their name on a piece of paper, or get their name under a piece of awareness will be the death of Awareness for all people with RSD/CRPS.
We as a community need to realize that, no we will not all get along, but that doesn’t mean we cannot put aside ego, and other worldly drawbacks, and get real tangible recognition.
Why must it come down to attacking each other and/or putting them down because they did something you wanted to do. Instead of coming up beside them and saying, “Wow, I want to be a part of this too!”
Envy, Greed, and our Egos are a death warrant for awareness.
We all want awareness, we all want change, we all want A CURE!
Why waste time attacking one another and wasting precious time and energy on hurting someone who is one of the few who understands your physical pain.
In the end a piece of paper should not outweigh a HUMAN LIFE.
We all make mistakes, we all fall short of perfection. What we need to do is support and love each other without judgement, and team together against the only Enemy that matters.
How can we beat this Monster you ask?
Where in this equation, is there room for any thing negative?
I only see plus signs. Positives.
If we add negatives we will never reach the end part of this amazing Equation.
I beg of you to look inside of yourself and remember this isn’t about one person and their fight.
We fight for each and every one of us, who has ever cried due to the pain, felt alone, scared, or hopeless.
Help us dry the millions of tears, remind each other we are not alone, chase away the shadows that make us afraid, and give Hope to the Hopeless.
We can do it! Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.
The Following Is A Q&A with Norman J. Black, the Clinic Manager of SPERO Pain Relief Therapy of Illinois & Gracie Gean, a RSD/CRPS Angel from Illinois.
Norman, what made you start administering Calmare and what kind of training did you receive?
First Christa, thank You for reaching out to Gracie and Me. Those suffering from CRPS/RSD are fortunate to have advocates like you, who offer hope and guidance in dealing with this life altering ailment.
My interest in Calmare was a bit unconventional. My formal training is in accounting and finance where I’ve spent the last 30+ years running businesses in the commodity futures industry in downtown Chicago. My older brother Len approached me about 4 years ago to make introductions for him to my friends in Chicago who were physicians. He had become a sales contractor for Competitive Technologies (the company which owns the intellectual property and marketing rights to Calmare) and was trying to sell this new medical device that “non-invasively relieves chronic neuropathic pain”. After reading the literature about how the device worked and what types of pain it could relieve, I decided to do some of my own research to determine if Calmare could be commercially viable. That’s where my business background came in handy. One of my first priorities was to contact Dr. Robert Chalmers of SPERO Pain Relief Therapy in St. George, Utah. I flew to his clinic, met with him for a few hours and subsequently we worked out an arrangement where I could use the SPERO name and consult with him on our patients cases when needed. For Dr. Chalmers , having a SPERO clinic in Chicago was a way for the Utah clinic to gain more visibility.
To make a long story short, I finally opened Spero Pain Relief Therapy of Illinois, PC in August of 2012. We have a Medical Director, Mitchell Weisberg MD, MP who is an Internist with a certification in Psycho-pharmacology. Dr. Weisberg’s psychiatric background is an important benefit for our patients, especially those with CRPS. Almost all of our patients are taking some form of anti-depressant and it’s important to understand the effects these medications have on their emotional and physiological well-being.
Our clinic also employs three technicians who have been trained by Competitive Technologies in the use of the Calmare medical device. We should be receiving our Calmare Certification shortly. All of our technicians are licensed in the state of Illinois in their respective medical specialties. Although I also participated in the training, my purpose was to understand the treatment as best possible so I could thoroughly explain to prospective patients what they could expect during a Calmare treatment. I’m sure Gracie will tell you that she’d much rather have our technicians treat her than me!
Gracie, How did you find out about Calmare? Why did you feel it was right for you? Also, How did you find Norman?
I am a 39 year old mother of two beautiful teenage girls. I took up kickboxing because it is a wonderful full-body sport and a great stress reliever!
I injured both of my wrists kickboxing at the gym. I had successful surgeries on both of my wrists, but a less than successful pre-surgical nerve block in my left brachial plexus. This triggered the RSD. I have been battling the beast for the last three years. I have tried aggressive OT, Stellate Ganglion Blocks, nerve stabilizing drugs, anti-depressant drugs (used for nerve pain), and a mountain of narcotics. Nothing cut the pain. I eventually just threw the drugs away and decided to go at it on my own. In desperation, I turned to the internet for help. I actually discovered Calmare Therapy on THIS site, RSD/CRPS Doesn’t Own Me! This site featured an interview with Dr. Rob Chalmers of SPERO Therapy, where he discussed his views on Calmare Therapy. I was intrigued to learn that there was a drug free treatment available! After doing my own research on this treatment, I just knew that I had to try it. There were no negative side effects that I could see. I discovered that there was a facility in Chicago, which is only a 3 hour drive from my home. I met Norman when I called the clinic to learn more, and we quickly became friends.
What made you, Norman, want to help those with Chronic Pain diseases like RSD/CRPS?
As I’ve mentioned in the first question, my interest in treating chronic pain was motivated by the business opportunities Calmare offered. Having no previous medical background (other than my mother and first wife being RN’s,) I now understand and have experienced the altruistic side of medicine. You cannot put a price on the type of hug I received from Gracie when we drastically reduced her pain from RSD during her initial treatment with Calmare. When you see mothers’ shed tears of joy instead of tears of sadness because their teenage daughter is finally getting some relief, especially since I have two children of my own, you appreciate the fact that you’re making a difference in someone’s quality of life. Yes, we have bills and the device is not inexpensive, but at some point I plan on treating patients that don’t have insurance and can’t afford the treatment.
What did getting Calmare mean to you as a RSD/CRPS patient, Gracie?
Calmare Therapy has changed my life! Before the treatments, my pain was unmanageable. While I am actually connected to the machine, I have absolutely NO pain. After the treatment ends, I have experienced up to 24 hours pain free. Beyond that, I usually stay at a pain level of 3-4 for periods of about 4-5 weeks. .I make sure to get plenty of rest, soak my RSD arm in hot water with Epsom salts, and get Calmare boosters if needed. I do not take any medications for pain. This all allows me to have a relatively normal life, depending on the weather patterns and the amount of stress in my personal life of course.
Is there a type of patient that responds best to Calmare and why did you believe Gracie was perfect to receive this treatment?
What is Calmare’s success rating?
Patients who respond best to Calmare are those who have been diagnosed with chronic neuropathic pain. In addition, patients who have neuropathic pain that is localized, ie., limited to one or two areas of their body generally respond better than patients where the pain is widespread. The electrodes are placed on healthy nerve tissue that surrounds the area of pain. If the pain is widespread, then it’s often harder to find skin areas where we can place the electrodes. With Calmare we’re not trying to block or inhibit the pain, we’re trying to change the brain’s perception of what’s happening in the periphery by introducing non-pain stimuli. If the avenue by which we’re sending the stimuli is damaged or suppressed, then we can’t be assured that the message is getting through. That’s the primary reason we need healthy nerve tissue. Additionally, patients who are taking neuroleptic medications such as Lyrica or Neurontin may not have the best response to Calmare. As I noted above, if the nerve pathways are suppressed, then it’s more difficult for the non-pain message to get to the central nervous system and subsequently to the brain. Ideally patients should try to wean themselves off these medications (under the supervision of the prescribing physician) before undergoing Calmare treatments.
Gracie was an excellent candidate for several reasons. First, she was not taking any medications for her pain that would inhibit the device. And second, her pain was restricted to her wrist and hand so electrode placement was straight forward.
Answering any questions that address the “success rating” of Calmare is difficult. How do we measure success? If in some way we ease the pain from what was intolerable to something that’s tolerable, well that’s successful. If we increase the quality of life in some way, then that’s a success. If a patient is pain free for a day, a week, a month, then for them the treatment was a success. What I will say is that over 90% of our patients have had enough reduction in pain during their initial treatment for them to want to continue with the initial 10 treatment protocol. I would say that’s an impressive success rating.
What were your fears if any about the procedure, Gracie? How did it, on the anxiety scale, compare to other treatments that you have done. Did you have any side effects mentally or physically?
My only fear about this procedure was that it may not benefit me. I already knew that it would not negatively affect me because I had done my research ahead of time. I had no anxiety about it at all. I had no negative physical side effects from the Calmare, other than a little redness where the electrodes were stuck onto my skin. I have extremely sensitive skin, so this was to be expected. There were no blisters or anything; just redness that went away within minutes. I must admit that it was a bit of a mental challenge during my first week of treatment. After being subjected to intense pain for such a long period of time, having a brief reprieve from that pain seemed like a cruel joke. The rebound pain almost felt more intense. It left me craving more and more Calmare Therapy sessions until the pain leveled out during my second week of treatment. One thing I cannot stress enough about Calmare Therapy is that you really need to give it time to work. The more treatments that you have, the better results you will experience!
I had PLENTY of anxiety prior to the Stellate Ganglion Block! How was I supposed to mentally prepare myself to have a huge needle stuck through the front of my neck, into my spine, while I am not sedated and being told not to breathe? That is not an easy task!
As of right now Calmare isn’t approved by many insurance companies.
How did you help in this aspect to make this treatment more available to the general population?
We’ve actually received favorable responses from quite a few of the private insurers. So far we’ve received reimbursement from United Healthcare (including one of their regionally owned affiliates), Farmer’s Bureau Insurance of Michigan, and Blue Cross Blue Shield of Minnesota. I’m also aware of other clinics using Calmare that have received private insurance reimbursement. In cases where the coverage has been denied we will assist our patients in appealing the claim. It’s important for the patient to be diligent in their appeal. The more cases the insurance companies are presented with, the greater the likelihood that Calmare will receive insurance coverage. The success of clinical trials presently complete and in progress should also make a big difference in whether private insurance will pay for Calmare.
In Gracie’s case her insurance carrier not only covered the “out of network” expense of the treatment, but Gracie applied for a GAP exception (for procedures that are not available within a certain mileage range) which was approved and resulted in our receiving 100% of what was billed. This established a strong precedent for future patients with the same carrier.
I’ve also spoken with Carl O’Connell the new CEO of Competitive Technologies (CTTC)) and he mentioned that getting in front of the larger private insurance companies is a top priority. CTTC is working on aggregating all the positive insurance responses received by Calmare clinics to strengthen the case for reimbursement.
How did your insurance cover Calmare, expand upon what Norman mentioned? What advice can you give to others trying to fight their insurance and/or workman’s comp?
I have private insurance through my employer. I am fortunate that this is actually a covered procedure. SPERO Pain Relief Therapy was out of my network, so my insurance company only wanted to pay 80% of the charges. I filed a Gap Exception to prove that no one within my network could provide this service, and the Gap Exception was approved. My insurance company now pays 100% of the charges for all of my treatments. I am the first person in the US to have a private insurance company pay 100% for this treatment. Since that time, Renee Hanson, the Clinic Administrator at SPERO, has been able to reference my case and has gotten several other cases covered also. I have taken very detailed notes about my journey and successes through Calmare Therapy, and I have provided those notes to several friends that are fighting Workman’s Comp. Calmare Therapy is less invasive and much cheaper than many alternatives. Hopefully we can continue to share these success stories and maybe Workman’s Comp and the insurance companies will take notice!
What are the long term results of Calmare? Does it need to be redone?
The long term results of Calmare are varied. You have to evaluate each patient differently, especially those with CRPS. In cases where the pain has not started to spread our expectations are for longer periods of relief. We’ve had patients experience relief from several weeks to 3 to 6 months. Our goal is to zero out the pain for as long as possible. Short of that, we’ll treat a patient until their pain relief has plateaued. With CRPS we’re finding that it takes a greater number of treatments to achieve the same amount of relief as those patients with other neuropathies. What’s been promising is that most CRPS patients get enough relief to impact their quality of life. It often means being able to continue with physical therapy that had to be discontinued because of elevated pain levels. Increased range of motion has also been noticed.
If the pain starts to elevate after the initial treatment protocol, we encourage the patient to come in for “booster” treatments. This usually consists of 2 to 4 consecutive daily treatments or enough treatments to get the pain to plateau again.
How many treatments have you done? How are you currently feeling physically? Mentally? Have these treatments affected your family life?
I completed three separate 10 day rounds of treatments. Now I just go in for boosters as needed. The boosters are 3 or 4 treatments. It is important to note that Calmare Therapy is not a cure. We all know that RSD is incurable. It is a treatment. It attempts to treat the symptoms of an incurable disease for unknown periods of time. Just as RSD manifests itself differently in everyone, it also reacts to the treatment differently in everyone. It is impossible to say how long it will last. Right now I feel really good, mentally and physically! These treatments have helped my girls also. Watching their mother in constant pain takes a toll on them too. They may not admit it, but I can see it in their beautiful faces. Seeing mom happier makes them happier.
Thank You Norman & Gracie for your time and courage helping those around the world learn more about Calmare and how it could possibly help those with RSD/CRPS!
If you would like to learn more about Calmare.
Please Read our Interview with Dr. Robert Chalmers, who is affiliated with this Clinic.
Calmare Treatments Questions Answered Straight From the Doctor’s Mouth
To Learn More about SPERO Pain Relief Therapy of Illinois:
More Information about Competitive Technologies:
This interview is informational only and we do not endorse this clinic.
Even Advocates Lose Their Spirit.
This statement may come as a shock to many. People see advocates for RSD/CRPS and those that fight so valiantly against it as heroes with armor as thick as lead. Nothing can touch them, or pull them down. Sadly this isn’t always the case. We are just as vulnerable to the clashes and the arrows of misfortune, depression, and circumstance as anyone else. We may sometimes give words of encouragement but sometimes it is us who need to hear those words the most.
We aren’t alone in this world. We are not invincible but we are stronger than we know. It is when we are in the pit that we see the light. Hoping to, one day, be free of the bonds that hold us back. The words from those around us saying others have tried and failed. To see the fear of failure hold us tight and keep us from success.
It is when we shrug off that fear embrace it and accept it for what it is, and overcome it that we truly crawl into the light.
Now am I saying I am totally there? No. I am still a climber. I strive to one day overcome being a Chronic Pain Patient and stand free and without worry of what the day might bring. To be able to do what my mind tells my body to do and not have to sit there thinking about the consequences.
You may say, “What is the point of continuing to fight against a battle some say is un-winnable?”
Do not allow despair to overtake and wrack your brain and body. Despair will tell you that the simplest thing isn’t winnable. How can we overcome the larger obstacles if we are sitting in the fetal position about the small ones?
I once dreamt of a fable. I was taking these stairs and from where I was it looked easy enough to walk down. But when I took a step down and turned around the step I had just taken was far above my head. I sat there wondering how in the world I could get back up. It is too tall and I cannot climb. My arms are too weak and there aren’t even foot or hand holds. So I turned around and began to climb further and further down the staircase. If I couldn’t go up, I might as well go down. As I walked the colder and the scarier it got. I walked till I came upon a man in tattered and worn clothes. He looked up at me and smiled. “Finally! My Salvation!” He screamed. He told me that he had been trapped there, with no way out. He scrambled to his feet and knocked me to the ground and stood on me and he finally was able to reach the top of the step above. He scrambled up the ledge looked down and laughed. He turned and walked away and not but a minute later I heard a loud cry of sadness come from the step above me. He had forgotten that the other steps were as high as the last. Even though he had gotten this far he was still no further than before.
The moral of this fable is, only together can we overcome these hurdles. I have tried going it alone, thinking that life was fine and dandy, only to realize that I was walking further and further down those steps. Ignoring the warning signs, and not getting help. Together, through support and psychological intervention, we can continue to be strong enough to overcome these obstacles. Instead of climbing one over the other we can support and lift each other up and over these steps and back into a healthy state of being. We all need this. This is not just for people in pain, like RSD/CRPS, but every person who has ever breathed the air or stood on this earth. We all need to pull together and support each other through each and every obstacle that stands in our way.
Only together we can make it. For if we divide and put ourselves before others, we may get to that next step and find no one left.
Creator and Co-Founder of RSD/CRPS Doesn’t Own Me
My dearest of RSD Angels.
It has come to our attention that yet again there is an abundance of argument, slander, gossip, and general hate against each other within the RSD Angel Community.
We wrote a note similar to this one back in Feb. of 2010 and again a couple years later we are having to write the same exact thing.
When we made this Awareness Group and Fan Page we never would have believed we would hear that our wonderful Angels were fighting among themselves.
We deal with horrific pain everyday. Wouldn’t we want happiness in our life? You are the only one that can control what you say and do!
We hoped not to have to write a note about this topic, again. But apparently some people need to be reminded that WE ARE ALL in horrid gut wrenching searing pain 24/7.
When you are an RSD Angel you need to think of all of the RSD Angels. We are fighting for each and every one of us to someday have a cure. Not just one!
This isn’t a one person fight or dream. It takes team work, and who can work as a team when we are divided?
If we are allowing ourselves to be catty or go around spreading lies that is making our fight for a cure and awareness of RSD/CRPS that much harder. Instead of taking that much needed 2 steps forward we have brought ourselves 10 feet back.
I don’t care who started any of the gossiping, slander, or hate, I want it to end here and now.
We are equal, not one of us is more important then the other and we all deserve one thing, respect. We are not children, so please let us not act like one. We need to build each other up and remember that we are hear to put a real face to RSD/CRPS and make people aware how it really effects us. That we are not some crazy crack pots that are looking for a hand out or narcotics or sympathy.
Prove to them that we are real patients, suffering from a, currently incurable, disease. If we continue down this path of self destruction to ourselves and our fellow RSD Angels then what will that bring us? Nothing but more pain and anguish.
As for me I choose to build up the RSD Angel Community. Please help us do that, and support a fellow RSD Angel today and stop fighting, please?
Let us stand up and say we are RSD Angels we walk through fire, hell, and brimstone everyday and we still are here. We still are smiling. We are victorious and we will overcome RSD/CRPS! Now Who is going to join me and put aside everything else and fight against our only common foe……….RSD/CRPS!
HUGS and Low Pain Wishes!
The RSD/CRPS Doesn’t Own Me Staff
A Hilarious List of Answers from a Disabled Person When Asked to Move
So a while back my mom and I went to see a movie! This was a big deal for me and caused a great deal of pain. We found good seats in the first row with the railing in front so i could prop up my leg and I have an extra seat so I can stretch my leg out when it spasms. My mother was on my bad side a seat over and I had left a seat open and I put my RSD Leg up on it so it doesn’t get hit. This man came in late and wanted mom to move over so he and his wife could sit down. I perked up and told him why this wasn’t able to happen. “I have Chronic Pain,” I said, “and I need the extra seat so I don’t get hit and cause more pain then I am already in.” He gave me a funny look and somewhat sarcastically said, “Excuse me, I am so sorry.” He then walked back to his wife and said loudly, “We can’t sit there, she has Chronic Pain….” I got to talking with my mom on this topic and we decided to write up a list of other things to say, since “Chronic Pain” is apparently a foreign Phrase in the English Dialect.
1.)”This seat is reserved for my Imaginary Friend. I’ll move but she’s gonna be pissed!”
2.)”I have a communicable disease and you would not be safe.”
3.)”The Little Man who lives in my toe is a trained Killer and will bite on command!”
4.)”As long as you don’t mind if I cuddle. One of my multiple personalities is a tramp.”
5.)”You’ll have to ask my master, she keeps me on a short leash and has an itchy trigger finger.”
6.)”I am afraid this seat is taken as is every other seat, by my bum leg.”
7.)” You can’t have this seat, because the British are coming!”
8.)”I’m sorry! I licked it and it’s MINE!”
9.)”As long as you don’t mind a wet bottom. My friend pee’d before leaving.”
10.) “The last man who sat here turned to stone, wanna try?”
11.)”See this cane? Its actually a cattle prod! Wanna ask again?”
12.)”I always save a seat for Hulk Hogan. I invited him to the movies, and he said we should do that sometime.”
13.)”You could sit here but that would be against my restraining order.”
14.)” Are you blind? The white rabbits own everything!”
15.)(Put hands over ears and rock back and forth) “Doctor said if you ignore the voices, they will go away!”
16.)”Have we been formally introduced? I never oblige complete strangers.”
17.)”Wanna see my death glare? Just ask again!”
18.)” I don’t understand but anyone who sits next to me suddenly becomes suicidal.”
19.)”Would you mind dying a slow and ignominious death?”
20.)”I duck-taped a troll under this seat and he already looks angry!”
21.)” The Who’s are on a speck of dust on this chair. A Persons a Person No Matter How Small!”
22.)”You are going to embarrass and offend my son, he is already sitting there!”
23.)”That spot is reserved for my seeing eye dog, should I ever go blind.”
24.)”NO! NO NO NO NO! I’VE ALREADY MOVED TWICE!”
25.)”I’ll move down as soon as you develop a debilitating neurological disease that causes you to swell and burn with each touch or movement. Oh! Wait…..that’s me!”
I hope this list made you smile but also made you think about how some people need to be educated on the importance on the subject of chronic pain and RSD/CRPS and how it effects those that have it.
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Some members have asked me to re-post this.
I wrote this for a member and friend of mine because someone was harassing them because they didn’t believe in RSD/CRPS.
You can use this and take out my experience and add in your own. Never let someone make your feel bad for something that you cannot help. Do not hate yourself just because you have RSD/CRPS, you are a wonderful person and deserve love.
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To whom it may concern,
I am the Founder and Creator of RSD/CRPS Doesn’t Own Me Online and on Facebook. I found out today that you both do not believe that RSD and other Chronic Pain are true conditions. There are Millions of people who have rightfully been diagnosed with RSD/CRPS. Why? Because they are in horrid grueling pain 24/7. Now I understand you think that we say we are in pain because all we want is a disability check. That is not true. Imagine not only being in pain but having to hire a lawyer to handle your case. For me mine is a workman’s comp case. Your life is no longer your own. I was extremely young, 19, when I was working and a 1/2 ton metal cart ran into the back of my left ankle causing a major injury. Soon after I started having burning pain that was more extreme than the pain I would associate with a severed ligament. No one could touch my leg and ankle. I couldn’t walk, I couldn’t sleep, nothing would cease this horrid burning within my own body. I wished it would stop. Soon I had to start the Workman’s Comp process. This has been the worst and most humiliating thing I have ever dealt with in my life. I did not choose to be a part of it. I had to because my employer paid for my medical visit. Once they do that you cannot get out till your condition is better. Well it didn’t it got worse. My ankle kept swelling and swelling. I had major Allodynia and major Edema. I lost all of my hopes and dreams in front of me. Doctors gave me no hope. The worst thing was the people I had always counted on. The ones I thought cared about me or any part of my family started calling me a liar. I wish I knew why people are compelled to call us liars just because they cannot see, touch, or feel what we are going through. You cannot see, touch, or feel the sun at night but because it reflects off the moon you still know that it is there. Why is this any different. Just because you can’t see, touch, or feel our pain doesn’t make the swelling, the color changes, the abnormal hair growth and nail growth go away. To belittle someone because you yourself are not going through these trails does NOT give you the right to call them a liar.
Till you have had to sit in your room in the dark, crying, not able to breath because the slightest movement will cause your pain to flare higher then it already is. You cannot say you truly understand Chronic Pain. To have your body lie to you and say that your veins have been drained of blood, refilled with Lighter Fluid, lit on fire, wrapped in barbed wire, and then placed on a BBQ Grill you will never empathize. Until you put aside your own pride that is causing you emotional pain you will never be close enough to an RSD Angel to help them. We don’t need judgements, hateful stares, and words said harshly under one’s breath. We NEED Love, compassion, understanding, support! If you aren’t doing those things you are nothing but another branding iron upon the millions that are already piercing our skin. So I would like you to look into your heart. Seriously think, in the future when someone asks you, “Why didn’t you believe in their RSD/CRPS?” You better know that you are not only hurting the person with RSD/CRPS, you are also causing a world of hurt to yourself. You never know how your not believing can effect the person with it. If you have a shred of decency inside you, you would swallow your pride and apologize and then educate yourself on RSD/CRPS and help us in our venture to find a cure. So that we can help someone’s future daughter or son from living the rest of their life with 24/7 360 degree pain.
Thank you for you time.
Everything we do boils down to choice. We choose to be happy, sad, angry, and everything in between. In fact in the Declaration of Independence it is mentioned twice.
The pursuit of happiness. People give up so much just so they are happy. Only to find out that they are depressed and lost. As the book states, “ We leave our Spouse, our jobs, our churches, and abort babies all in the pursuit of happiness.”
But what happens when things don’t go right. What happens when everything in our life seems to go pear-shaped.
These are called storms.
In one of the chapters which became my favorite the Author speaks of three different types of storms.The first type of storm the author uses the example of the Bible Story of Jonah. God told Jonah to go and preach to the people of Nineveh. Now here is a bit of back ground about these people. The people of Nineveh and Jonah’s people were sworn enemies. They thought they were hateful, mean, and down right nasty people. Jonah probably thought, “Why should I do this? These people aren’t worth my time. They aren’t going to listen. It’s just too hard.” So instead of listening to God, Jonah ran away, and ran straight into a storm.
This goes together not only sharing the Gospel with your Fellow RSD Angels but also spreading RSD/CRPS Awareness with people that don’t understand what RSD/CRPS is. You probably have said something like this, “Why should I do it? These person isn’t worth my time. They aren’t going to Listen. It’s just too hard,” and the ever popular, “It will just cause me to flare. I am just as guilty as the next person. Sometimes I wonder if it makes a difference if I share the Gospel to others or spread awareness about RSD/CRPS. It does. The future holds so much more then we can imagine someday we will understand it all but instead of running away we must face what is in front of us. How can we help not only our fellow man but our fellow RSD Angel.
The Second type of storm used is the type that brings us closer to God.
I am going to give a bit of my Testimony for a minute, please bear with me.
I was raised in a Christian Family, went to Church almost every Sunday and almost every Wednesday, I graduated from a Christian High School, and even went to a Christian College before my accident. Did that make me a Christian? Actually no.
It wasn’t till after I got RSD/CRPS that I began to seek God. Yes for a time I sat there and asked “Why Me?” but after the rage and the anger melted I began to learn who I was again. Where I stood in the world. It truly was like being reborn in a sense. I realized how self-obsessed I had been and how I did nothing to benefit my fellow man. I just walked through the world head down but all the while saying, “What can I get out of this?” I began seeking Him and finding my life getting better. Not only because I was now truly a Christian for the first time in my life but because I had true happiness.
I was worth something in His eyes. Therefore I picked myself up and after 5 months of being bedridden began to learn how to walk again. At one year I was in and out of a wheelchair and using a walker in the house. Now here at almost 4 years later, I am walking sometimes with the assistance of a cane but most of the time without. I went from being able to do nothing but sit and cry in pain to now working, and being married to the most amazing man I have ever met.
Yes, I am in the same amount of pain that I was in 4 years ago. It is how I allow it to effect me that makes the difference. It is all about choice.
The last and final type of storm they give is that of the “Example Storm.” This, sometimes, in my opinion is tied with the 2nd type.
Sometimes we have storms in our lives so that other people may see that life is still worth living. I always say and if you have been a member of RSD/CRPS Doesn’t Own Me long enough I have said “There is life after diagnosis.”
How are you going to live your life? Is it going to be a good example and show not only the world but other RSD Angels that there is hope? Or are you going to go home and say “Woe is me, have pity on my life because it sucks.” Which do you think people are going to not only react positively to but also might change someone’s life. The simple act of praying with a RSD Angel friend or sharing your story with a friend who doesn’t know about RSD/CRPS. These are the things that make the storm pass easier.
There are so many blessings in your life. Check out this book to read more in depth.
It surely changed my view on a few things. The whole book is filled with amazing stories, and it makes you think, laugh, and being the silly woman I am sometimes cry when it hit home.
If you find this to not be your style that is fine and that is your choice. We wanted to share it because we felt it was something we stood for and were happy to share with others.
I leave you with this.
“God has given each of us the power to overcome the world and the power is choice. How we use that power is determines our path in life. The responsibility is ours and ours alone. We must be willing to make the choices that transform our lives. We must choose to see life as an opportunity for service and not just an existence. We must stop barely surviving and learn to grow by choosing to choose.” -Dr Tony Robbins.
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Hello RSD Angels!
Tuesday November 1st is the beginning of RSD/CRPS Awareness Month.
This month is very important.
You may be asking yourself why is it important and why does it matter?
Remember back when you first found out you had RSD?
For a lot of you it it probably went a little like this:
Doctor/Medical Professional: “You have RSD….”
You: RSD? What is the World is that?”
Imagine if just by spreading awareness this wouldn’t happen to someone in the future. Imagine if they had found out day one that they had it? Imagine if the Doctor’s were aware of the early actions that help progress into remission?
Imagine one day having a cure!
How can you spread awareness?
This month we will be sharing RSD/CRPS Facts and Articles that help spread awareness. You can share these article and talk to your family and friends which is a great place to start. Ignorance isn’t bliss, and yes it will be the hardest thing you will ever had to do, but trust me it is worth the hard work even if it doesn’t work.
Also we are asking everyone to please post a picture that is related to RSD/CRPS such as these…..
One Idea we also had was each day of the month of November as your status, post 5 things about yourself that you are proud of. It can be anything. Little or small. Even if it is sitting up to get on the computer, that is amazing cause it allowed you to join us here today!
Another Idea that we had was this…..
Our Founder has been seeing people doing these “We are the 99%” posters. It sparked an idea to post pictures next to poster boards of things who make us…Us. The world may label us “Disabled”,”Handicapped”,”Insane”, “Needy”, or a number of different stamps that the world makes. Let us show the world the things we are made of and what is about us that we are proud of. State the facts and do not hide it.
The Picture is by one of our Founders, Christa Whightsel and it states as follows….
“I am Christa Whightsel.
I live with pain 24/7 365.
I am a Wife, Daughter, Sister, Aunt, Cousin, Caretaker, Founder, Friend, Dreamer, Artist, Baker, Creative, Outgoing, Loving, Hopeful, A Christian, Generous, Funny, Joyful, Loving, Confident, and Talented!
I am an RSD Angel!
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RSD/CRPS Awareness Month www.rcdom.org”
We now challenge each and everyone of you to not be afraid. Spread Awareness World Wide. You have nothing to lose. If people want to judge and choose not to understand, then move on. Find the people that do care. It may be hard but you deserve love. You are an amazing, courageous Human Being, and don’t allow yourself to believe you are anything less then amazing.
Now I end with this. If you got nothing till now walk away with this. There is life after Diagnosis, and this is only the beginning of an amazing new journey. You only have to start it!
Love and Gentle Hugs,
The RSD/CRPS Doesn’t Own Me Staff.